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Singles

The Singles Checklist

10 Things You Must Check Before You Say I DO

by Rev. Dr. Sam Oye

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About the book

You cannot afford to gamble with your destiny in the name of love. Marriage is too sacred, your future too valuable, and your emotional health too important to leave to assumptions, pressure, or mere attraction. The Singles Checklist 9.0 is your intentional guide to investigating before investing your life. It moves you beyond surface feelings into deep evaluation, spiritual discernment, and practical wisdom. This book is not designed to create fear; it is designed to build clarity. It equips you to slow down, think deeply, pray intentionally, and choose wisely before you say, “I Do.”

Inside these pages, you will walk through the Purpose Connection Check, ensuring your visions and callings align rather than compete. You will explore the Family Background Check, uncovering patterns, values, and generational influences that shape behavior. The Integrity Check and Personality Check help you evaluate character, emotional stability, compatibility, and conflict management. The Responsibility Check examines maturity and readiness for commitment, while the Parental Consent Check emphasizes honor, counsel, and covering. Through the Health Check, you assess physical, emotional, and mental well-being. The Love Check tests whether what you share is patient, kind, sacrificial, and reciprocal. Finally, the Divine Confirmation Check ensures that beyond logic and emotion, you have spiritual peace and conviction about your choice.

This is more than a checklist; it is a compass. It helps you increase your capacity to attract wisely, discern accurately, and determine who truly qualifies for the lifelong investment of your heart, time, and resources. If you are serious about building a relationship that will not collapse under pressure, then The Singles Checklist 9.0 is not optional—it is essential.

Rev. Dr. Sam Oye

About the author

Rev. Dr. Sam Oye

Rev. Dr. Sam Oye is the Founder and Lead Pastor of The Transforming Church (TTC) in Abuja, Nigeria, and the Convener of Prophetic Prayer Hour (PPH) — an online prayer platform that gathers a global audience.

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